Forgetting — Vellumwise series cover

Forgetting

Unpaid bills, a kettle left on and a mother who insists nothing is wrong. Joanna navigates assessment, diagnosis and five years of care, learning to love the person her mother is becoming.

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I want to read this

Ageing & later life Family duty Living with uncertainty Family home Hospital or clinic Reflective Warm

The premise

Unpaid bills, a kettle left on and a mother who insists nothing is wrong. Joanna navigates assessment, diagnosis and five years of care, learning to love the person her mother is becoming.

The protagonist

Joanna Coutinho-Reilly — Daughter noticing her mother’s memory slipping

The council

Every council member is an original fictional character. None represents, quotes or is endorsed by a real person.

Dr Oliver Draycott

old-age psychiatrist

Kind; early assessment opens doors

Abena Ekpo

dementia nurse

Practical; routine reduces distress

Margaret Delaney

care-home manager

Experienced; visit several homes

How the story moves

Five years of decline and adaptation; each stage requires new decisions and a new relationship.

What readers take away

  • Early signs of dementia
  • The assessment process
  • Types of dementia
  • Treatments and their limits
  • Care planning
  • Support for carers
  • Communication with people with dementia
  • End-of-life care in dementia
  • Use memory aids and routines
  • Adapt the home for safety
  • Manage driving decisions
  • Plan respite

The books

  1. 1The kettle Planned
  2. 2The assessment Planned
  3. 3Diagnosis Planned
  4. 4Care Planned
  5. 5Crisis Planned
  6. 6Goodbye Planned

Book titles are working titles and may change before publication. No book is on sale until the complete series is finished, checked and released.